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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Mon, 28 May 2012 00:38:35 GMT--><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><title>Blog</title><subtitle>Blog</subtitle><id>http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/</id><link rel="alternate" type="application/xhtml+xml" href="http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/"/><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/atom.xml"/><updated>2012-05-06T14:14:36Z</updated><generator uri="http://www.squarespace.com/" version="Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/)">Squarespace</generator><entry><title>Still Harbor in the Boston Globe</title><category term="Boston Globe"/><category term="Colleen Sharka"/><category term="Edward Cardoza"/><category term="SDI"/><category term="Spiritual Direction"/><id>http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2012/5/6/still-harbor-in-the-boston-globe.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2012/5/6/still-harbor-in-the-boston-globe.html"/><author><name>Still Harbor</name></author><published>2012-05-06T14:06:22Z</published><updated>2012-05-06T14:06:22Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[ARTICLE: Growing demand for spiritual directors: Here, as across the nation, spiritual directors find more seeking counsel, solace outside church walls

READ: Natalie Weaver, a 25-year-old musician who lives in Roxbury, does not go to church. But every three weeks or so, she visits a white vinyl-sided building on Dorchester Avenue, a former convent, to meet with her spiritual director.]]></summary></entry><entry><title>Amber and Billy North perform at Still Harbor</title><category term="Amber North"/><category term="Billy North"/><category term="Concert"/><category term="Event"/><id>http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2012/4/10/amber-and-billy-north-perform-at-still-harbor.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2012/4/10/amber-and-billy-north-perform-at-still-harbor.html"/><author><name>Still Harbor</name></author><published>2012-04-10T14:18:05Z</published><updated>2012-04-10T14:18:05Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[Singer-songwriters and friends of Still Harbor, Amber North and her father Billy North, will debut their new project, name, and album with a night to celebrate the contemplative arts at Still Harbor. Buy a ticket today. You'll get a copy of the album with your $20 ticket.]]></summary></entry><entry><title>A Poem Worth Sharing</title><category term="Acceptance"/><category term="Gratitude"/><category term="Hospitality"/><category term="Rumi"/><category term="The Guest House"/><id>http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2012/3/28/a-poem-worth-sharing.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2012/3/28/a-poem-worth-sharing.html"/><author><name>Still Harbor</name></author><published>2012-03-28T21:09:17Z</published><updated>2012-03-28T21:09:17Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[We have been using a Rumi poem as a reflective prompt in a lot of our retreats and workshops, and today, it seems fitting to share it with all those who visit our website:]]></summary></entry><entry><title>Ed Cardoza at Spiritual Directors International</title><category term="Crisis"/><category term="Cultivating Compassion"/><category term="Haiti"/><category term="SDI"/><category term="Spiritual Direction"/><category term="Trauma"/><id>http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2012/3/28/ed-cardoza-at-spiritual-directors-international.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2012/3/28/ed-cardoza-at-spiritual-directors-international.html"/><author><name>Still Harbor</name></author><published>2012-03-28T21:03:03Z</published><updated>2012-03-28T21:03:03Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[Compassionate Accompaniment: Deploying Spiritual Direction in Times of Trauma and Tragedy is the title of Ed Cardoza's workshop at Spiritual Directors International's Annual Conference, Cultivating Compassion.]]></summary></entry><entry><title>February Reflections: Alignment in the Leap Year</title><category term="Alignment"/><category term="Leap Year"/><category term="Recalibration"/><id>http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2012/2/29/february-reflections-alignment-in-the-leap-year.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2012/2/29/february-reflections-alignment-in-the-leap-year.html"/><author><name>Still Harbor</name></author><published>2012-02-29T20:37:00Z</published><updated>2012-02-29T20:37:00Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[I would like to suggest that Leap Day—today February 29—become a celebration of alignment. This “extra” day, tacked on to the end of February every four years, exists to compensate for the extra five hours and 46 minutes of our annual journey around the sun that is not taken into account in our regular 365 day calendar year. In other words, Leap Day is the day that we allow the earth to catch up with us.]]></summary></entry><entry><title>Global Health Corps Fellows Love Still Harbor</title><category term="GHC"/><category term="Global Health"/><category term="Retreat"/><category term="Rwanda"/><id>http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2012/2/23/global-health-corps-fellows-love-still-harbor.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2012/2/23/global-health-corps-fellows-love-still-harbor.html"/><author><name>Still Harbor</name></author><published>2012-02-23T18:52:34Z</published><updated>2012-02-23T18:52:34Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/21kuUyrC1aQ" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Dream and awaken in the new year</title><category term="Carl Jung"/><category term="Henry David Thoreau"/><category term="NY Times"/><category term="Pico Iyer"/><id>http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2011/12/31/dream-and-awaken-in-the-new-year.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2011/12/31/dream-and-awaken-in-the-new-year.html"/><author><name>Still Harbor</name></author><published>2011-12-31T12:30:00Z</published><updated>2011-12-31T12:30:00Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: georgia,serif;">Dear friends,<br /> <br /> <a style="color: #800000; text-decoration: underline; font-weight: normal;" href="../../contact/"><img style="margin: 3px; float: right; width: 150px; height: 150px; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid; display: block;" src="https://d2q0qd5iz04n9u.cloudfront.net/_ssl/proxy.php/http/gallery.mailchimp.com/c33d42035c6a392cff5e39d4f/files/donate_box.1.gif" alt="" width="150" height="150" align="right" /></a>On  this last day of 2011, we write to share with you a few brief  reflections and to ask for your support of our work. Your contributions  make all the difference and we are deeply grateful for those of you who  have already made a gift this year.<br /> <br /> On Thursday, the New York Times Online published an opinion piece entitled <a style="color: #800000; text-decoration: underline; font-weight: normal;" href="http://www.nytimes.com/2012/01/01/opinion/sunday/the-joy-of-quiet.html?pagewanted=1&amp;_r=1&amp;smid=fb-share" target="_blank"><em>The Joy of Quiet</em> by Pico Iyer</a>.  Mr. Iyer mused on the irony of how the need for quiet, stillness, and  disconnection seems to be growing in urgency as we create more and more  technology aimed at streaming constant sound, motion, and methods of  virtual connection into our lives.<br /> <br /> Just as Mr. Iyer does in his article, our programs at Still Harbor pull  on the teachings and wisdom of faith, philosophical, and pedagogical  traditions of contemplative practice to promote ways of integrating  reflection and discernment techniques into our daily lives and work. As  we transition into a new year, we deeply appreciate seeing these topics  being addressed in mainstream media outlets. We are even more deeply  grateful that you are among those who have embraced our vision at this  early stage in Still Harbor's story.<br /> <br /> Henry David Thoreau wrote, "Our truest life is when we are in dreams awake." </span><span style="font-family: georgia,serif;">And  Carl Jung wrote, "Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes."  These notions combined mean to us that, as Mr. Iyer points out, the  ability to integrate an outward and an inward gaze by making time for  contemplative quiet is not just nice but is essential. This is precisely  why Still Harbor was founded. We are hoping to encourage individuals  and organizations committed to social justice service to dream awake.<br /> <br /> Thank you to those of you who have already generously supported us  during this season of giving. For those of you who have not yet made a  2011 gift, please consider showing your support for our vision and work  now by <a style="color: #800000; text-decoration: underline; font-weight: normal;" href="../../contact/">making a contribution</a>. Your donations, no matter the size, will enable us to launch 2012 with as much energy as we are wrapping up 2011. <a style="color: #800000; text-decoration: underline; font-weight: normal;" href="../../contact/"><strong>Make your donation online or by mail today</strong></a>.<br /> <br /> With our deep gratitude,<br /> Ed, Perry, Colleen, Arville, and the rest of the community at Still Harbor</span><br />&nbsp; 	<br /></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>December Reflections: Paradox and Wisdom</title><category term="Paradox"/><category term="Parenting"/><category term="Perfection"/><category term="Responsibility"/><category term="Spiritual Formation"/><category term="Vulnerability"/><category term="Wisdom"/><id>http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2011/12/30/december-reflections-paradox-and-wisdom.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2011/12/30/december-reflections-paradox-and-wisdom.html"/><author><name>Still Harbor</name></author><published>2011-12-30T20:20:00Z</published><updated>2011-12-30T20:20:00Z</updated><summary type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[A few of us at Still Harbor have been reading a book called Falling Upward by Father Richard Rohr, a Franciscan priest who has written extensively on spirituality and who founded a Center for Action and Contemplation in New Mexico. In the introduction, Rohr writes:

“If there is such a thing as human perfection, it seems to emerge precisely from how we handle the imperfection that is everywhere, especially our own… In fact, I would say that the demand for the perfect is the greatest enemy of the good. Perfection is a mathematical or divine concept, goodness is a beautiful human concept that includes us all.”]]></summary></entry><entry><title>A reflection, a report, a request</title><category term="Donations"/><category term="Progress"/><category term="Reflection"/><id>http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2011/12/15/a-reflection-a-report-a-request.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.stillharbor.org/blog/2011/12/15/a-reflection-a-report-a-request.html"/><author><name>Still Harbor</name></author><published>2011-12-16T01:56:00Z</published><updated>2011-12-16T01:56:00Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: georgia,serif;">Dear friends,<br /> <br /> <a href="http://stillharbor.squarespace.com/contact/"><img style="margin: 3px; float: right; width: 150px; height: 150px; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid;" src="https://d2q0qd5iz04n9u.cloudfront.net/_ssl/proxy.php/http/gallery.mailchimp.com/c33d42035c6a392cff5e39d4f/files/donate_box.1.gif" alt="" width="150" height="150" align="right" /></a>Some of you have received this letter and report from us in the mail. Whether in hard copy or via this email, we hope you will take a moment at this time of generosity and reflection to read some end-of-year thoughts from us. We continue to be inspired by your participation in and support of Still Harbor. If you are moved by the progress we have made this year, we ask that you please consider <a href="http://stillharbor.squarespace.com/contact/" target="_blank">making a financial contribution</a> to our work as we strive to launch our 2012 programming with a strong and growing sense of energy and renewal.<br /> <br /> With our warmest regards,<br /> Ed, Perry, and the Still Harbor team</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong><span style="font-family: georgia,serif;"><a href="http://stillharbor.squarespace.com/storage/progress%20report%20final%202011.pdf"><img style="margin: 3px; float: right; width: 150px; height: 150px; border-width: 0px; border-style: solid;" src="https://d2q0qd5iz04n9u.cloudfront.net/_ssl/proxy.php/http/gallery.mailchimp.com/c33d42035c6a392cff5e39d4f/files/progress_box2.gif" alt="" width="150" height="150" align="right" /></a>A reflection, a report, and a request</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: georgia,serif;"><em>&ldquo;It is a long baptism into the seas of humankind, my daughter. Better immersion and in pain than to live untouched. Yet how will you sustain?&rdquo;</em> -- excerpt from, &ldquo;O Yes,&rdquo; a short story by Tillie Olsen.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: georgia,serif;">These are the thoughts of a mother as she reflects on her white daughter&rsquo;s status-quo breaking friendship with a girl who is black in the United States of the 1950s. In these words, there is a profound recognition that the very relationship that will bring her daughter connection and awakening will also bring her suffering.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: georgia,serif;">Whether living in the midst of the Civil Rights movement or taking part in today&rsquo;s increasingly global movement for justice and equity, the feeling of being submerged in a world where one is witness to gross human inequities is quite real.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: georgia,serif;">Just as many seek professional and intellectual frameworks of justice, equity, or humanity to help them act in the face of such injustice, many also look for a spirituality that grounds them with purpose, presence, and hope.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: georgia,serif;">And while the word spirituality may feel private or be a trigger for some, we have found that participants in Still Harbor programs have responded positively to our approach regardless of their comfort level with spiritual concepts when they meet us.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: georgia,serif;">Through our workshops and curricula, we have been able to create the space and provide the guidance for people to individually and collectively look inward at who they are, what they care about, and how they want to apply that sense of identity and purpose in the world.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: georgia,serif;">We encourage you to<a href="http://stillharbor.squarespace.com/storage/progress%20report%20final%202011.pdf"><strong> read our progress report</strong></a>, in which you&rsquo;ll find a more detailed overview of these programs and their impact with our partners and participants. We thank you for supporting our growth in countless ways.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: georgia,serif;">You are among the visionaries who instinctively understand the value of applying contemplative&mdash;or spiritual&mdash;practice to work that serves humanity.</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-family: georgia,serif;">We hope that you will continue to show your support now by <a href="http://stillharbor.squarespace.com/contact/"><strong>making a contribution</strong></a> that will help us launch 2012 with as much energy as we are wrapping up 2011. <a href="http://stillharbor.squarespace.com/contact/"><strong>Make your donation online or by mail today.</strong></a></span></strong></p>
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So, that was yesterday morning. Having my anxiety to propel me, I tried to fit in five-minute periods of concentrated writing between appointments, meetings, and responding to emails. But only bad writing and more stress came out of my fear-driven attempts.]]></summary></entry></feed>
